tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post8834164144920143416..comments2023-10-31T05:36:16.846-04:00Comments on Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional: What she's missingPutting the FUN in DysFUNctionalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02996772324484385959noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-10840109826052914172009-09-21T05:15:55.199-04:002009-09-21T05:15:55.199-04:00If I had a stepmother like you, I would probably h...If I had a stepmother like you, I would probably have never thought about my mother.. fact is, neither my stepmother nor my bio mom were any good at being mothers to me. To their next children? Oh yeah, they were great... I apparently was not worth the effort nor deserving enough, to have a mother figure in my life that wasn't cold, standoffish, rude and abusive. <br /><br />Makes it hard to be a mother your self without having a real role model mother... doing the best I can though. <br /><br />And btw, nice cake! I love handmade cakes, far more personal and loving!Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00906184343444035019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-73127669929623124992009-09-17T07:01:40.231-04:002009-09-17T07:01:40.231-04:00Great job on the cake and thank goodness Andrew ha...Great job on the cake and thank goodness Andrew has you to be Mom in his life.Karen in Texashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16276582805740924266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-65802985677812983142009-09-17T00:55:26.360-04:002009-09-17T00:55:26.360-04:00OMG I LOVE the cake!! That gives me a fab idea fo...OMG I LOVE the cake!! That gives me a fab idea for Thomas' 3rd bday cake...now I just need to remember it in May...can you post this again in May? Just wondering...Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10395153992892479101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-23321774553555645072009-09-17T00:28:47.184-04:002009-09-17T00:28:47.184-04:00You said it right...SHE is missing out.You said it right...SHE is missing out.shortmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18083148312260283511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-44690105344164526462009-09-16T22:30:29.637-04:002009-09-16T22:30:29.637-04:00I bet it was a GREAT birthday because of you. look...I bet it was a GREAT birthday because of you. look at his smile.. :)Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14508220276381229247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-59311972293854410122009-09-16T22:01:35.595-04:002009-09-16T22:01:35.595-04:00Seriously missing out, and by the time she figures...Seriously missing out, and by the time she figures it out, it will be too late. <br /><br />Happy Birthday to Andrew!Tara R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02993625193184914299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-180977413597677702009-09-16T21:14:18.973-04:002009-09-16T21:14:18.973-04:00I think that's a great cake. He looks like a r...I think that's a great cake. He looks like a really sweet kid. She IS missing out.Frogs in my formulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15588651443689809504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-34971884398491080232009-09-16T20:07:56.577-04:002009-09-16T20:07:56.577-04:00cute cake!!!!cute cake!!!!hperryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07606083513849288878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-30798511538890605032009-09-16T14:47:15.218-04:002009-09-16T14:47:15.218-04:00She is missing out. What a special person you are...She is missing out. What a special person you are to be in his life as the mom he needs. That's what he will remember when he grows up, how special you are to him. Happy Belated Birthday to him!Maeve's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14603473254698758660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-38338672216962748252009-09-16T14:23:12.709-04:002009-09-16T14:23:12.709-04:00I totally agree....she is missing out. At least h...I totally agree....she is missing out. At least he has YOU in his life. Doesn't seem like he's lacking a mother at all with you in his life. <br /><br />BTW, I love your cake. The fact that you made it for him out of love is what's important!Helenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10743718606624231459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-78416175647385329782009-09-16T14:04:24.970-04:002009-09-16T14:04:24.970-04:00Good for you for stepping in for his birth mom. A ...Good for you for stepping in for his birth mom. A boy shouldn't pay for his mother's poor choices. It looks like you have made him very happy:-)Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099425493742842588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-84830097024833016492009-09-16T12:36:29.724-04:002009-09-16T12:36:29.724-04:00Sounds like he has a much better mother in you and...Sounds like he has a much better mother in you and probably realises that. Poor kid tho - that's outrageous.<br /><br />Just found your blog! I'm a fellow wicked steppy! You have a new follower.<br /><br />LBM xxLa Belle Merehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05081037978656372933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-6864748800783344272009-09-16T11:26:09.377-04:002009-09-16T11:26:09.377-04:00looks like he is really happy!looks like he is really happy!tiarastantrumshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03036618235332598079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-33171962320819857892009-09-16T10:56:11.680-04:002009-09-16T10:56:11.680-04:00His Natal Mother is 'missing' so much - an...His Natal Mother is 'missing' so much - and 'missing' from his life, as well. He has YOU, now, lucky boy. And that's what he REALLY needs. You.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13024392628362568010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-72476860256357619542009-09-16T09:52:59.478-04:002009-09-16T09:52:59.478-04:00What a great cake....and what a great (step)mom as...What a great cake....and what a great (step)mom as well!<br /><br />In from SITS! Have a great WW!Suzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10613938236896132163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-42609320994702378532009-09-16T09:49:52.130-04:002009-09-16T09:49:52.130-04:00Your such a good mom! How did you get him to choos...Your such a good mom! How did you get him to choose vegetables for his bday dinner? I have to know the secret!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03872543304692729543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-77069196469272574002009-09-16T09:47:08.559-04:002009-09-16T09:47:08.559-04:00He shares the same b-day as Maeci. :) And, I can...He shares the same b-day as Maeci. :) And, I can't imagine (as a mom) missing these special days. He's so lucky that he has you, I say! :)Crazee Julshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13548983833692955117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-67383886571469046882009-09-16T09:23:52.312-04:002009-09-16T09:23:52.312-04:00he looks like he had a wonderful birthday and the ...he looks like he had a wonderful birthday and the cake is too cute! :)<br />~K<br />Happy B-lated Birthday AndrewGypsiAdventurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114056397143074653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-71936909818642586872009-09-16T08:38:41.753-04:002009-09-16T08:38:41.753-04:00she is ssoooooooo missing out...and you are sooo b...she is ssoooooooo missing out...and you are sooo being "with". good work momma...and the cake...i actually said outloud, "ahhh, that is so cute." and thought instantly of making one for my nephew! good work!Danyele Easterhaushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15645625553845575954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-89752281467233987292009-09-16T06:48:54.936-04:002009-09-16T06:48:54.936-04:00Thank goodness he had his mother with him - you ar...Thank goodness he had his mother with him - you are doing a great job of it.cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15788508986252339771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-32039702502167019382009-09-16T06:44:32.661-04:002009-09-16T06:44:32.661-04:00UGH!!! Absentee parents make me so mad. Looks like...UGH!!! Absentee parents make me so mad. Looks like he had a nice time with you though.Upstatemammahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16862359333933751151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-70371079799893436432009-09-16T06:27:47.104-04:002009-09-16T06:27:47.104-04:00Least he has you which makes him kinda lucky! Dro...Least he has you which makes him kinda lucky! Dropped by from SITS today:)Dumb Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00912124222427415284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-22571571926449203012009-09-16T04:47:02.524-04:002009-09-16T04:47:02.524-04:00dropped in from sits. sounds like he had his moth...dropped in from sits. sounds like he had his mother there on his birthday, you! my father has always been in my life, but my step (cringe) dad has always been there too. i love want and need them both. they're both my dads. happy wednesday.MaryRChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05885722336155612196noreply@blogger.com