tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post8703467205418686343..comments2023-10-31T05:36:16.846-04:00Comments on Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional: Let's Raise Some Real MenPutting the FUN in DysFUNctionalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02996772324484385959noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-78297773095360791512010-12-14T20:46:50.270-05:002010-12-14T20:46:50.270-05:00Our sons have been raised to treat all people dece...Our sons have been raised to treat all people decently and to respect a strong woman. Our future daughters-in-law will never know this type of crap. It is amazing, though, the number of young men who still think it's okay to behave like this.qandlequeenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02756567197176596886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-43295272074695264382010-12-12T14:39:30.597-05:002010-12-12T14:39:30.597-05:00Sadly, as long as there are jerks raising daughter...Sadly, as long as there are jerks raising daughters, we will have young women with standards low enough to be attracted to jerks that they subconsciously believe they will be able to change, with enough love. The thought of sleeping with such a creep is unthinkable to me today, but back in the day (before therapy) I might have. I'm guessing he knows how to be charming when he wants some.Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-21833664320724549302010-12-07T18:32:29.175-05:002010-12-07T18:32:29.175-05:00Well said! Bravo!
Kristin - The GoatWell said! Bravo!<br /><br />Kristin - The GoatKristin - The Goathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08856336718919208752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-17269130284809498202010-12-06T23:57:40.920-05:002010-12-06T23:57:40.920-05:00OMG THIS is awesome! I don't watch that show f...OMG THIS is awesome! I don't watch that show for just that reason. <br /><br />And one thing I do have to say, I will NEVER allow my boys to treat a woman that way, that she was made to be put on this earth to be his beck and call girl. <br /><br />But there are women out there that ALLOW this kind of behavior! I WAS one. I allowed my ex husband to tell me that I was useless and that he was the breadwinner in the family and if it weren't for him I would be lost, and THAT contributes to that type of behavior. His daughter watched him treat me that way and she grew up thinking that was okay. <br /><br />Women need to stand up for themselves and tell the other half that they are every bit as important in every way....or leave. Because in reality it's the MEN that would be lost not the women! <br /><br />I was better off without THAT kind of treatment, and I will NOT allow it from my husband, but he's much to awesome and he knows better than to treat me that way! <br /><br />Ahem :::Stepping off my soap box:::<br />I hope you are feeling better! =)Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10395153992892479101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-9618784331505792722010-12-06T22:17:19.665-05:002010-12-06T22:17:19.665-05:00Amen Sista! I watch that show too... I just can&#...Amen Sista! I watch that show too... I just can't help it. Although almost always it completely pisses me off the way that the teens act.Myyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03248342096609316500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-44881014186201105722010-12-06T19:21:52.680-05:002010-12-06T19:21:52.680-05:00Amen Sista!! I hate guys like that and I just won...Amen Sista!! I hate guys like that and I just wonder what horror their parents must feel seeing that behavior...or is it because of their parents that they act like that?!shortmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18083148312260283511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-32458690391382228912010-12-06T16:25:18.871-05:002010-12-06T16:25:18.871-05:00I have got to start watching that show. If that we...I have got to start watching that show. If that were my son he would be smacked into tomorrow and then back into yesterday so we could reteach him how to be a human being. That poor woman and her baby. I hope he did sign off so they never have to deal with him again.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08551314950473231190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-62497655588271229292010-12-06T16:15:58.002-05:002010-12-06T16:15:58.002-05:00I can't imagine someone acting like that. but ...I can't imagine someone acting like that. but you are right - my son will not. no responsibility for their actions.Brandy@YDKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11362084419708971995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-37597964397865794292010-12-06T13:01:32.063-05:002010-12-06T13:01:32.063-05:00I don't know where it comes from. It does make...I don't know where it comes from. It does make me angry too. My son was not raised that way and I am so proud of him. My husband has learned to shut his month!! His mother spoiled him rotten, did everything for him and I don't.Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-91784189384179383982010-12-06T12:51:15.932-05:002010-12-06T12:51:15.932-05:00I can't watch that show, it makes me so mad.I can't watch that show, it makes me so mad.Tara R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02993625193184914299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-2212058741589469882010-12-06T12:14:34.398-05:002010-12-06T12:14:34.398-05:00I cannot watch shows like that for that very reaso...I cannot watch shows like that for that very reason - I get angry over it for hours ... days even. and the fact that they show this on tv just gives other guys the idea that it's okay.<br /><br />I do have to add, I had my oldest daughter at 18. the sperm donor called me when she was about 2 and told me that he knew "where WE went wrong. WE were just too young. if WE had waited a couple of years, WE would have been more responsible to handle a baby". <br /><br />of course, WE were no longer together because HE still wanted to party and moved back home (1500 miles away) and SHE (or me) grew up and raised a baby. <br /><br />funny how WE went wrong, isn't it?<br /><br />I don't get where the boys (because they sure as heck ain't men) get the idea that this kind of thing is acceptable. my hubby has a saying, "if the queen ain't happy, the kingdom ain't happy" ... so true ;0)diane renehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14278917038491110157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-3992903411778715282010-12-06T12:02:03.392-05:002010-12-06T12:02:03.392-05:00You make a very good point! That show drives me ba...You make a very good point! That show drives me bananas, but for some reason, I can't stop watching it! There's just no sense of morals or values, whatsoever! Mind boggling, isn't it?Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13114076859455081016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-74277362042310324742010-12-06T11:19:09.619-05:002010-12-06T11:19:09.619-05:00i LOVE the no nookie, no cookie... lmao..
sadly, i...i LOVE the no nookie, no cookie... lmao..<br />sadly, i agree with you on everything. men can be such assholes. i cant be around guys like that and i lose respect for the gal... i have known many and its disgusting.. i too want to kill them.. or at least treat them the same way... they are usually raised like that cuz the testicle doesnt fall far from the tree.. i have tried talking till i'm blue in the face to help my ex friends stand up for themselves, but after awhile when i see it going in one ear and out the next, and with all i have invested, AND they tell the guy all that was said therefore he's acting worse in front of me.. i got tired of it and have no patience for it anymore. and its no ones fault, its just me, i only have so much energy and i cant waste it on deaf ears any more. its very sad... i will always try once or twice but when they say ok, i'll change my situation but dont, then theres nuttin i can do... and i realize it will take more than i can do to help them.<br /><br />i prolly sound like a bitch, but i am not, it just has hurt too much to try to change or help those who wont help themselves. but if one of my boys [i have 3] ever acted like that they would be answering to one pissed off mama and it wouldnt be pretty.. i too, have not raised them to be rednecked morons..Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910078888984045131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-84202614973197975982010-12-06T10:52:57.718-05:002010-12-06T10:52:57.718-05:00You got it just right girlfriend!! My hubby calls ...You got it just right girlfriend!! My hubby calls me his princess & treats me like one 99.99999% of the time. When he forgets & reverts back to his caveman self, I remind him in not so pretty words & he straightens right up LOL♥ Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14591559212770014981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-75715392747356467622010-12-06T10:23:46.531-05:002010-12-06T10:23:46.531-05:00It is very sad when you see women whom you love pu...It is very sad when you see women whom you love putting up with behavior like that.... and then their daughters follow their example... *sigh* At age 8 my son is a gentleman... sweet, kind, sharing... my goal is to keep him that way! I think I have a good chance since his daddy is still like that! ;)Seizing My Dayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13245085711105059612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-50401810738866828072010-12-06T08:31:14.952-05:002010-12-06T08:31:14.952-05:00My... wife's stepsister's husband... whate...My... wife's stepsister's husband... whatever that makes him to me... well he's pretty much a pig.<br /><br />We were sitting around at the monthly family gathering and his wife had just had a baby and he made some comment like "Yeah I was gonna ask if the doctor could put an extra stitch or two while he was down there..." WUT? <br /><br />Let me get this straight... your wife just shot a bowling ball out her hooha and you're whining cuz it's too loose?<br /><br />We already didn't have any respect for him but that pushed it to the level of complete dislike.JPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01926199371718027858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-59942302764333750842010-12-06T06:50:41.986-05:002010-12-06T06:50:41.986-05:00I remember that episode! And it literally MADE ME...I remember that episode! And it literally MADE ME SICK! I too am so beyond fortunate to be married to the man I'm married to. Watching 16 & Pregnant episodes reminds me of that a lot. My heart breaks so much for the girls who don't have a wonderful guy to take care of them and their children.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11660382153003691371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-3553383585403696842010-12-06T05:41:57.638-05:002010-12-06T05:41:57.638-05:00word!
i work my ass off trying to raise my son to...word!<br /><br />i work my ass off trying to raise my son to be the type of person i'll want to be around in 10-20 years. right now, at 12, he seems to have a tendency to veer into douchebagery. not acceptable.<br /><br />i see far too many moms treating their boys like little kings though. it makes me ill because i know that in a few years that boy is going to be thinking that the sun rises and sets on his ass and he'll be treating women like crap.<br /><br /><br />and i agree with you-i'd like to think that my son wouldnt act as the kid in the show did, but if he did, there would definitely be some hell to pay.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com