tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post4477828192833222836..comments2023-10-31T05:36:16.846-04:00Comments on Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional: My Not-So-Nice Side Came Out, Growling and Roaring.Putting the FUN in DysFUNctionalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02996772324484385959noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-68307272932607322202010-07-08T16:06:26.784-04:002010-07-08T16:06:26.784-04:00I haven't read any blog posts lately and reall...I haven't read any blog posts lately and really haven't been spending much time on the computer. Otherwise, I certainly would have commented on this earlier!<br /><br />I would have been growling too. You don't mess with a (real) momma. When you hurt her child, the fangs will come out. Animal or human. The lines blur when you're talking about the natural instinct to protect your baby.✿https://www.blogger.com/profile/01044032159371976375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-15735500514928858202010-07-04T08:59:09.782-04:002010-07-04T08:59:09.782-04:00I despise people who play a part in bringing a chi...I despise people who play a part in bringing a child into the world and then want to be a parent when it's convenient for them!!!<br />DON'T GET ME STARTED!!!<br />Girl I feel for ya!Twisted Fenceposthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15973165692768831966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-17457747791262699322010-07-02T22:33:15.679-04:002010-07-02T22:33:15.679-04:00He loves you, you are his mother.
I am so sorry fo...He loves you, you are his mother.<br />I am so sorry for what are going through and what she has put him through. I will say a prayer.Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-40001430544343740602010-07-01T06:15:08.674-04:002010-07-01T06:15:08.674-04:00I would have done exactly what you did. You are pr...I would have done exactly what you did. You are protecting your child .cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15788508986252339771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-61847729291155538722010-06-30T15:10:02.144-04:002010-06-30T15:10:02.144-04:00GOOD FOR YOU! you handled that beautifully, IMO. ...GOOD FOR YOU! you handled that beautifully, IMO. andrew is lucky to have you as his MOM.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08366702328848324866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-5556668432969143922010-06-29T11:13:02.132-04:002010-06-29T11:13:02.132-04:00Good for you! I am in a similar situation. My kids...Good for you! I am in a similar situation. My kids' fathers both decided that they would really rather not step up and be a parent. I met my soulmate and married him. We have been together for 4 years and my kids already consider him their dad. They made similar cards and say random things like "you are the best dad ever". My kids are 14, 13, 10 and 6 and all understand EXACTLY what the previous men in their lives amount to, sperm donors. They don't ask about them, want nothing to do with them, and that is totally without Sir Geek and I talking smack about either of them. I spent the better part of 10 years trying to cover for my ex husband, to keep my kids from knowing just how much of a childish ass he was. When my daughter (the oldest) was 9 she asked me "Mom, why haven't you divorced Dad yet, he's not good for you or us." Kinda floored me...and made me think. Kids are smart, they know EXACTLY what they need and want in a parent and what is not good. Thank goodness that you are there for your boy.Draea Lael (Rose)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03717268166299796454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-2677941598229282722010-06-29T01:47:22.039-04:002010-06-29T01:47:22.039-04:00You go Mama! Good for you, I said the same thing, ...You go Mama! Good for you, I said the same thing, you can mess with me all you want....but you mess with my kids and you. will. suffer!!!Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10395153992892479101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-9255076802533984622010-06-29T00:02:46.726-04:002010-06-29T00:02:46.726-04:00You go girl! I would of did the same thing. Anyone...You go girl! I would of did the same thing. Anyone can be a mom but it takes a woman to be a mother. My husband raise my two boys since they were 2 & 3 years old. My son turned 18 in October and now carries my husbands last name. My other son is getting ready to change his last name too in October because he will be 18. They don't want to carry thier biological father's name. Their biological father gave them up and still had to pay me child support. WHATEVER! You are Andrew's mother any every way possible. God Bless You Dear! :o)<br /><br />Gina<br />motherof1princessand2princes.blogspot.comGina F.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02802771871341576245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-36606164043833233172010-06-28T20:24:11.569-04:002010-06-28T20:24:11.569-04:00I'm sorry that Andrew had to go through such a...I'm sorry that Andrew had to go through such a difficult situation. I'm sorry that this will be an issue for him for a long time. I'm happy that he has you. He needs stability, that's what you are trying to provide.Claudya Martinezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17034216831504207496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-16945803531798484182010-06-28T18:24:29.792-04:002010-06-28T18:24:29.792-04:00Good for you!!! Damn right you are his MOM & ...Good for you!!! Damn right you are his MOM & YOU get to choose what is best for him. I had a Dad whom came into our lives & married our mom when my sisters & I were 9 mos, 3 & 6. He is our Dad & our one & only! when Mr. Biological came around when I was in the 6th grade he stepped in like he was our dad. I wasn;t having it! At 12 years old I made the decision very quickly to not have anything to do with him. It took my sisters a little longer but soon enough we again had no contact. All for the better! My dad is wonderful & I am so thankful to have had him in my life raising me as his own. Andrew is better off having his real mom, not his biological one!!!Myyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03248342096609316500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-71463658708882518952010-06-28T16:21:33.022-04:002010-06-28T16:21:33.022-04:00It must be so hard for you and for Andrew too. You...It must be so hard for you and for Andrew too. You are protecting him and doing the best for him. Well done.<br />Lindsay<br />xLindsay-annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06120356568434114624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-85805931253709257252010-06-28T13:48:41.213-04:002010-06-28T13:48:41.213-04:00I would have been really upset too. If she hadn...I would have been really upset too. If she hadn't abused him then I could see letting her be a part of his life but since all she's done is brought him pain she lost that right. I would have cut off V and the rest of their family too. That was way crossing a line.♥ Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14591559212770014981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-75496895960227903152010-06-28T13:35:17.649-04:002010-06-28T13:35:17.649-04:00Good for you!! The last thing Andrew needs is dram...Good for you!! The last thing Andrew needs is drama. He is finally in a loving, stable household, why on earth would V mess with that!! Again, good for you!MamaBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12258919515250739198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-12511096586709546022010-06-28T12:33:02.448-04:002010-06-28T12:33:02.448-04:00I am so behind...but I don't blame you for doi...I am so behind...but I don't blame you for doing that. FB has brought me nothing but problems, so I cancelled mine. You are his Mom and that is all that matters.Melanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04167151300858497228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-28561383234322016752010-06-28T10:24:16.186-04:002010-06-28T10:24:16.186-04:00I would have been livid... I am angry for you even...I would have been livid... I am angry for you even now! I hope you all are going to a different showing of that movie to avoid any possibility of them showing up too.<br /><br />It's not cold hearted, what C did was cold hearted. You are just protecting YOUR son.Tara R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02993625193184914299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-18818026441109232262010-06-28T09:41:01.396-04:002010-06-28T09:41:01.396-04:00Good for you! I would have done the same thing. It...Good for you! I would have done the same thing. It should be about what's best for Andrew and you have that under control.Mama Wheatonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07517148288044183965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-79005557433667203092010-06-28T09:32:21.177-04:002010-06-28T09:32:21.177-04:00Amazing that humans can donate a uterus or sperm a...Amazing that humans can donate a uterus or sperm and think they are a parent!! Doesn't happen that way!<br />Protect that sweet Angel -that's what a parent does- nurtrue his heart - that's a Momma's job...<br /><br />Good JOB Momma!!Lisa Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02938416888845734579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-45424931302388526742010-06-28T09:03:31.712-04:002010-06-28T09:03:31.712-04:00I can't even begin to imagine.
You have bee...I can't even begin to imagine. <br /><br />You have been a blessing in this boys life :)<br /><br />Kristin - The GoatKristin - The Goathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08856336718919208752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-84492839756355427132010-06-28T08:59:42.589-04:002010-06-28T08:59:42.589-04:00I can see why you were so upset. I would have bee...I can see why you were so upset. I would have been livid. <br />It is kinda crazy that people need to get a fishing license but any idiot can have a child. <br />I know I've said this before but THANK GOD for you. Andrew is so lucky to have you, and you to have him.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339665205284492242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-54615929911492889462010-06-28T08:26:44.108-04:002010-06-28T08:26:44.108-04:00Your such a good Mama bear! I would have tore her ...Your such a good Mama bear! I would have tore her a new ass too!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03872543304692729543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-57161234177769951792010-06-28T05:09:41.579-04:002010-06-28T05:09:41.579-04:00I'm glad you have those protective instincts o...I'm glad you have those protective instincts over him. Clearly he needs protection. Good for you. You've been a better mother than she could ever be!Liz Mayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13960276167677132860noreply@blogger.com