tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post2539083985209426683..comments2023-10-31T05:36:16.846-04:00Comments on Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional: DarknessPutting the FUN in DysFUNctionalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02996772324484385959noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-34490616574747028352009-03-03T20:51:00.000-05:002009-03-03T20:51:00.000-05:00I hope you have made it out of the dark. Spiderman...I hope you have made it out of the dark. Spiderman should be comforted with the thought that even if you did not mother him by bearing him in your womb, he was born in your heart and has a special place always.Little GrumpyAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14065581455480762162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-47758366770105470092009-03-02T21:43:00.000-05:002009-03-02T21:43:00.000-05:00Oh, I am so sorry. For you, for Spiderman, for eve...Oh, I am so sorry. For you, for Spiderman, for everyone's loss.<BR/><BR/>I hope you're getting through it. Good wishes and hugs your way.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16649638235083533810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-4532215192825001702009-03-02T15:56:00.000-05:002009-03-02T15:56:00.000-05:00I hope you are feeling better now....you do so muc...I hope you are feeling better now....you do so much and care so much for so many people, please don't forget to take care of YOU too. My arms are wrapped around during this tough time. xoxoxoA Buns Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12611682053507407292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-18906946482641418452009-03-01T19:13:00.000-05:002009-03-01T19:13:00.000-05:00What a difficult thing to have to go through ... n...What a difficult thing to have to go through ... not only attending a funeral for a young person but to have to deal with a child who is caught in such a difficult situation. But what a blessing that he sees you as his mother.Jennershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08044537551139633301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-84879116524900323332009-03-01T18:46:00.000-05:002009-03-01T18:46:00.000-05:00Poor Spidey. At least he's found the mom he's alw...Poor Spidey. At least he's found the mom he's always wanted...Wephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00778012535731461256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-68951025601001086402009-02-28T20:02:00.000-05:002009-02-28T20:02:00.000-05:00So hard. I'm catching up and I want you to know t...So hard. I'm catching up and I want you to know that I read this and I'm thinking of you.anymommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17870033179328734404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-59609616861859107022009-02-28T09:44:00.000-05:002009-02-28T09:44:00.000-05:00Dang Girl, hang in there, your in my thoughts and ...Dang Girl, hang in there, your in my thoughts and prayers. I totally get where Spiderman is. If you can be there for him he will overcome this someday. I'm glad your there to fill his mommy void. I send you tons of hugs!Alpacamountainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16272686445719140497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-32015226201980383902009-02-28T07:54:00.000-05:002009-02-28T07:54:00.000-05:00Oh man, that's rough. Hope you emerge from the da...Oh man, that's rough. Hope you emerge from the darkness soon. Poor Spiderman...so rough on a kid. If only these "parents" could see what they do to their children.John Deere Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234273045011961912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-37742392303390493432009-02-27T23:14:00.000-05:002009-02-27T23:14:00.000-05:00beautiful photos C,.. sometimes we need to see the...beautiful photos C,.. sometimes we need to see the darkness before we visualize the light.OHmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12712111068636100187noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-70290987415170009762009-02-27T23:09:00.000-05:002009-02-27T23:09:00.000-05:00Tell Spiderman that sometimes in life we learn tha...Tell Spiderman that sometimes in life we learn that our REALEST family is the people around us who we love the most. C will always be his mother, but you can certainly also be his Mommy, even without changing biology and going back in time!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-10484830857687202442009-02-27T22:12:00.000-05:002009-02-27T22:12:00.000-05:00One of my greatest fears is to outlive one of my k...One of my greatest fears is to outlive one of my kids. I cannot imagine what your friend, and you, are going through. My heart breaks for Spiderman too. He's so lucky to have you in his life.Tara R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02993625193184914299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-61539363459530582712009-02-27T21:05:00.000-05:002009-02-27T21:05:00.000-05:00I'm sorry for your loss and for the jumble of bad ...I'm sorry for your loss and for the jumble of bad stuff all at once...Jennihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08982881362706361805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-26912532844384593292009-02-27T17:49:00.000-05:002009-02-27T17:49:00.000-05:00Wow, I just want to reach out and give you a big h...Wow, I just want to reach out and give you a big hug. Turn to Him.... He will shed some light on you.junglemamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09176730853175967320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-78711444537599950282009-02-27T17:01:00.000-05:002009-02-27T17:01:00.000-05:00Okay, but those photos are very beautiful. I'm gl...Okay, but those photos are very beautiful. I'm glad you are the light for that little boy.Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-82287763166044134072009-02-27T13:59:00.000-05:002009-02-27T13:59:00.000-05:00UGH!! I hate those days. But then sometimes I feel...UGH!! I hate those days. But then sometimes I feel like a good cry and it helps me get it out. Someday Spiderman will learn that his "mama's" loss is your gain, even if she never realizes that. My nephew is in a similar situation with his dad.<BR/>I, too, had such a realistic dream when I was pregnant that I woke up crying b/c I thought my hubby was dead and I'd have to raise our baby by myself. Took me a few days to shake it.....<BR/>hugs to you!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570024478040067899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-27806810863013037252009-02-27T13:31:00.000-05:002009-02-27T13:31:00.000-05:00....look for the light house, hon. it will guide y.......look for the light house, hon. it will guide you.<BR/><BR/>CChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910078888984045131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-65581915147715030182009-02-27T13:07:00.000-05:002009-02-27T13:07:00.000-05:00Definitely a rough go, today & to come soon. ...Definitely a rough go, today & to come soon. I am so sorry you are going through so much at once. Isn't that how it seems it happens way too often?<BR/><BR/>& about Spiderman - I have no words. It's terribly sad. How a grown woman doesn't know (or chooses not to acknowledge) the impact she is having on her own flesh & blood is beyond me.<BR/><BR/>The light will be there, soon - it always comes back to us.<BR/><BR/>Thanks so much for the congrats on my first grandchild! I'm elated to be able to see her, finally!Lex the momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05000384127075772584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-35139434274713195692009-02-27T12:56:00.000-05:002009-02-27T12:56:00.000-05:00I am so sorry for the loss of this young person.Fe...I am so sorry for the loss of this young person.<BR/><BR/>Feel your feelings.<BR/>Listen to your heart.<BR/>It will tell you when it's time to come back into the light.<BR/><BR/>Love you. Mean It.Nesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02184900184545881232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-60991490494477522182009-02-27T12:33:00.000-05:002009-02-27T12:33:00.000-05:00ugh. will be thinking/praying for you this weeken...ugh. will be thinking/praying for you this weekend. Thanks for such an honest, heartfelt post.designHER Mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17708634068729401935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-6588797748273913802009-02-27T12:26:00.000-05:002009-02-27T12:26:00.000-05:00I'm praying for you and your family. Sometimes we...I'm praying for you and your family. Sometimes we need the dark to appreciate the light even more.pb&j in a bowlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16988989049185590217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-1785090340182480932009-02-27T11:57:00.000-05:002009-02-27T11:57:00.000-05:00I am so very sorry. No one should ever have to bu...I am so very sorry. No one should ever have to bury a child. My heart aches for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers through this tough time. And keeping positive thoughts for you to find that light very soon.Momisodeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06752015177628948631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-24229035539966202022009-02-27T11:20:00.000-05:002009-02-27T11:20:00.000-05:00I totally understand where you r coming from, but ...I totally understand where you r coming from, but remember Mommy Warriors always come out of the darkness and into the light! Our little ones lift us up and fill our hearts with love!Hattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03511989028203261108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-20025636280580298992009-02-27T11:07:00.000-05:002009-02-27T11:07:00.000-05:00Ugh. Dark, indeed. I'm so sorry.And poor Spiderm...Ugh. Dark, indeed. I'm so sorry.<BR/><BR/>And poor Spiderman. That is just heartbreaking. But on a positive side (I know, I'm trying to find one for ya) thank GOD Spiderman has you. Really. You are such a gift to him.Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14339665205284492242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-1684845124747413202009-02-27T11:05:00.000-05:002009-02-27T11:05:00.000-05:00One breath at a time.One step at a time.One day at...One breath at a time.<BR/>One step at a time.<BR/>One day at a time.<BR/><BR/>That's all you need to do.<BR/><BR/>HallieWonderful World of Weinershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12704174092907120103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-72801688813772641952009-02-27T10:27:00.000-05:002009-02-27T10:27:00.000-05:00So sorry you a having such a sad time. I hope thin...So sorry you a having such a sad time. I hope things turn around for you soon! Hugs!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07589330892217693717noreply@blogger.com