tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post1799122299153850463..comments2023-10-31T05:36:16.846-04:00Comments on Putting the FUN in DysFUNctional: A Phone Call I Won't ForgetPutting the FUN in DysFUNctionalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02996772324484385959noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-88531852980579255182011-05-04T21:08:38.884-04:002011-05-04T21:08:38.884-04:00OMG!!! my story about my step son and his BM is pr...OMG!!! my story about my step son and his BM is pretty much the same. One differance is my step sons BM is a drucg addict. Now that she the BM didn't show up for court, she lost all visitaion rights. my husband and i also have a no contact order. However, the problem now is: My step son is acting up. He is fighting with kids at school, and most of all, really emotional. To top it all off, he won't allow my husband and i to sit next to each other. Iam a newly wed. What can i do? Should i have my step son see a counselor? Possibly a physciatrist?<br />Please any one help.<br /> Concerened military step mom.michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17599589801188255182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-3493745249538875162011-04-25T16:58:33.937-04:002011-04-25T16:58:33.937-04:00Sigh. That's just so wrong. I am thrilled for ...Sigh. That's just so wrong. I am thrilled for you guys though.Issahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11309906249557761472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-34780059764481340672011-04-23T01:39:35.808-04:002011-04-23T01:39:35.808-04:00This brought me to tears, that is great news. I pr...This brought me to tears, that is great news. I pray they don't give her any more chances to prove herself.Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-81792579482043163462011-04-22T22:53:15.319-04:002011-04-22T22:53:15.319-04:00GOOD!
A phone call I will never forget is the one...GOOD!<br /><br />A phone call I will never forget is the one I got from Mr.4444, telling me that his dad had died (suddenly, of a massive heart attack). I'm certain I'll never forget it.Mrs4444https://www.blogger.com/profile/06426176094895489541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-49522001361026310022011-04-22T01:05:52.444-04:002011-04-22T01:05:52.444-04:00Thank goodness you don't have to deal with tha...Thank goodness you don't have to deal with that kind of stress anymore! Still, it's gotta be hard on the little guy...<br /><br />At first, I thought that was going in a whole different direction #trickery! :-)Misfit Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08666523444451347960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-10298760704594313042011-04-21T22:22:01.655-04:002011-04-21T22:22:01.655-04:00After I read this all I could do was think about h...After I read this all I could do was think about how happy I am for Andrew. What a weight off of his shoulders. He definitely needs more time to heal before he has to face her. YAY!!!!!!Myyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03248342096609316500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-78535148622844324062011-04-21T22:17:06.346-04:002011-04-21T22:17:06.346-04:00Is this what they call poetic justice? Kinda?
...Is this what they call poetic justice? Kinda? <br /><br />She must be pretty screwed up to not show up after all that. I just feel really sorry for her and what she's missing out on in her sons life by not having it together. Sadly, that's just how some people are. <br /><br />I hope this makes it easier for you all to not have to deal with her though.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01044279582701415786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-52461489676150444182011-04-21T21:51:31.022-04:002011-04-21T21:51:31.022-04:00I am so happy for you but I am a little sad too.I am so happy for you but I am a little sad too.myevil3yearoldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11854180510600015573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-9856239429114127042011-04-21T21:49:54.957-04:002011-04-21T21:49:54.957-04:00I'm just shaking my head. To not show up? What...I'm just shaking my head. To not show up? What a mess she must be!Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06811697675090627618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-62521866642096647232011-04-21T18:26:07.514-04:002011-04-21T18:26:07.514-04:00How can people do that! He is pretty luck y to hav...How can people do that! He is pretty luck y to have 2 stable parents in his life. Geez!amygrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10655920157645555504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-4083984391252449102011-04-21T17:42:23.140-04:002011-04-21T17:42:23.140-04:00Wow - some people!!
I LOVE how every time I read B...Wow - some people!!<br />I LOVE how every time I read BM I thought of poop. xoLady Estrogenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13317661832390573264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-78411287072972978222011-04-21T16:47:54.872-04:002011-04-21T16:47:54.872-04:00Please Stop by my page I want to give you the styl...Please Stop by my page I want to give you the stylish blogger award :)I hope your week is going great<br />Blessings<br />GinaGinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16736287152859391525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-34565226623929261912011-04-21T16:47:21.429-04:002011-04-21T16:47:21.429-04:00Wow! Not sure what to say...except I hope she stop...Wow! Not sure what to say...except I hope she stops doing this to him. Kids always seem to have to pay the price for adults who don't do the right thing for the kids.Melanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04167151300858497228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-79422939917940776992011-04-21T16:02:53.067-04:002011-04-21T16:02:53.067-04:00You know, for someone like her, it seems like she ...You know, for someone like her, it seems like she gets caught up in the drama of it all but really doesn't want the outcome she's asking for. <br /><br />My BIL's ex used to do this every 2 years or so. She'd breeze back in to my niece's life and get everyone all riled up and get the courts involved. In the end, she'd never show up to the hearings. Such a waste of time, money and emotional energy.Helenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10743718606624231459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-4895597981945434952011-04-21T13:21:12.607-04:002011-04-21T13:21:12.607-04:00My first thought was YES!! Good. And good for you ...My first thought was YES!! Good. And good for you for sticking up for Andrew. That sounds totally unfair to him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-74275033685240848922011-04-21T11:53:41.004-04:002011-04-21T11:53:41.004-04:00I am SO glad she didn't show up...I was starti...I am SO glad she didn't show up...I was starting to get all upset!! I hope this weighs HEAVILY on the judges decision. I'm here from Mama Kat's.Crystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08354973669191454830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-35093549605137751582011-04-21T11:27:37.606-04:002011-04-21T11:27:37.606-04:00i think that's great news. i hope this means s...i think that's great news. i hope this means she's done.Brandy@YDKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11362084419708971995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-5434837979009135742011-04-21T10:30:59.652-04:002011-04-21T10:30:59.652-04:00I am totally speechless! You know, I believe that...I am totally speechless! You know, I believe that things work out as they were meant to be. Sounds like this was all part of a greater plan from the man upstairs.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13114076859455081016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-57730274387289953462011-04-21T10:00:40.025-04:002011-04-21T10:00:40.025-04:00Life is good. I'm so happy for ALL of you. I h...Life is good. I'm so happy for ALL of you. I hope she has finally decided to put Andrew first. :)brainellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11067167871454642635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-26558217012456577972011-04-21T09:27:22.792-04:002011-04-21T09:27:22.792-04:00excellent phone call!! that is good news, i hope ...excellent phone call!! that is good news, i hope the judge seriously considers this. maybe her lawyer can just drop the case??Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05868042113530630191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-76130076353498635162011-04-21T09:17:43.195-04:002011-04-21T09:17:43.195-04:00that would be a memorable phone call, and clearly ...that would be a memorable phone call, and clearly it did not help her case. Im sorry you had/have to deal with that!Jennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06666555088992266185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-42516319172019859402011-04-21T08:37:42.093-04:002011-04-21T08:37:42.093-04:00does BM stand for bowel movement? jus askin....
...does BM stand for bowel movement? jus askin.... <br /><br />i am glad this is turning out this way. and so glad he has your love. you are his real mama...Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910078888984045131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-51449381879512560452011-04-21T08:25:58.695-04:002011-04-21T08:25:58.695-04:00I'm glad it worked out. She pretty much shot h...I'm glad it worked out. She pretty much shot herself in the foot, in regards to future issues, too.thepsychobabblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06160059940623065616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-80613853685659783462011-04-21T07:41:33.056-04:002011-04-21T07:41:33.056-04:00I am glad it worked out. I was a little worried at...I am glad it worked out. I was a little worried at the beginning of the post. It is so wonderful that he has you.JDaniel4's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10354900916937838719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5136763350284688012.post-42974872068066834952011-04-21T06:59:31.931-04:002011-04-21T06:59:31.931-04:00Sometimes...situations just work themselves out. ...Sometimes...situations just work themselves out. Yes, the fact that she didn't bother to even show up certainly doesn't help her case at all. If she loved that child AT ALL...she would understand he is in a better place and stop disrupting his life. Sometimes, good parenting is knowing when you aren't able to parent!<br /><br />God bless and Happy Easter to you and yours my online friend :)Sherrismileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07560034235129602314noreply@blogger.com